For me, it's several little acts that stand out to me. One in
particular happened at the Coronation of Padruig and Linnet. I was walking into the feast
hall, carrying a very heavy chest of feast gear myself, as my then lord husband had
volunteered to serve high table. Lord Uther Von Ziemer came walking toward me with a very
upset look on his face and said "Why are you carrying that? Here, hold my
tankard." With those words he took my chest from me, looked back at me and said,
"Now where are you sitting?"
I have lords escort me to my cabins, carry things for me, help me set up my camp site, and just little things like that. Those are the things that I remember the most.